Term 4 nightmares

Last year was a horrible term 4 for B he just couldn't stop the anxiety wouldn't go to school lots of fighting hitting kicking hurting running jumping etc etc so called a psych and told her about what was happening. She said she was concerned because now we have a pattern forming (last 3 years in a row term 4 was a nightmare) I call last years term 4 B's low point he got to the stage of band aides on every finger and toe to the point of not showering for 2 weeks and wearing gloves and socks to bed. Even if I went thru during the night to remove these horrible smelly disgusting items so I could wash and dry for themorning it just didn't work get them mostly off and he'd wake. SO I was more then a little surprised when in our PSG meeting we didn't even look at term 4 anxieties and the teacher wasn't aware of it (even though one of his teachers was the special needs lady last year) So I told his teacher in brief what had happened and what I did and who said what and she couldn't believe it and said to me at the end of the day what ever is best for him is what is going to work for us so let me worry about here and you worry about home. PHEW what a relief but again I am questioning how much of a stat B is at the school. Principle's attitude is he needs to be at school he needs to be involved but he can't always cope and he will always gravitate to the younger children. So I am nervous about next term coming along. I am treating like any other term but only time will tell and after 3 years of this nightmare I think I have a right to be.